If we constantly and consistently reinforce positive behavior, the child will constantly be motivated to do good (when I do good, I feel good). In order to improve in this area, we need to work harder to notice good behavior. We naturally tend to notice the bad. How would you like to live in a …
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No Parenting (Seed 5)
In almost all situations, no chinuch is better than bad chinuch (no parenting is better than bad parenting). When in doubt of what to do or how to react, don’t do anything. If the issue is really a problem, it will resurface and you can address it then. If it doesn’t occur again, it wasn’t really an …
No Grey Area (Seed 4)
The Chovos HaLevavos says that there is no grey area when dealing with others. There is only black and white. Thus, a child should only be judged by his actions, not by the intention we project on him. Analyze each situation and focus only on what the child actually did. If what he did was not …
